The moment someone starts to hurt me or hurts me really bad, I start to push them away. I can’t help it,when someone I care about hurts me, I shut down, close up and when needed do not talk to the person (s) until I am ready too. In many ways this allows me the opportunity to work through it in my own way.
It's been the same, with relationships and friendships. Though I usually forgive people, it's when they first initially hurt me that I push. Sometimes the relationship or friendship can be reconciled, sometimes it cannot be but it is never as close as it was.
p/s : Once I've been burned, it's almost impossible for it to go back to the way it was….
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